It’s impossible to not have a smile on your face after watching this video. 

Stephen Davies designed this awesome, adorable, and totally kick-ass, prosthetic arm for a young girl named Isabella. According to Refinery29, Team UnLimbited is the company behind this prosthetic arm, and they are paving the way for affordable products that will be accessible to more people.

“Team UnLimbited is one of many projects under the volunteer-based, 3-D printed prosthetic collective, e-Nable. Although they aim to stay on the cutting edge of this burgeoning technology, their main concerns actually revolve around the accessibility and affordability of their devices. On average, prosthetics cost over $10,000. However, after purchasing the necessary materials for $20-$50, an e-Nable limb ranges from $50 to $150 in price. It’s estimated that e-Nable has provided 1,500 people around the world with prosthetic devices.” (via)

This video is sure to brighten up even the gloomiest of days.

SEE MORE: WATCH THIS TRANS TEENAGER’S EMOTIONAL REACTION TO GETTING HER FIRST DOSE OF HORMONES

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Mom Erica Maison surprised her transgender daughter Corey with her first dose of hormones which she had been waiting over TWO YEARS to receive. She captured the emotional moment on video and we’re still not over it!

SEE MORE: KIDS WITH AND WITHOUT DOWN SYNDROME ANSWER THE SAME QUESTIONS

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What do you want to be when you grow up? What’s your favorite food? These are questions every kid has answers to.

This beautiful, adorable, precious, perfect video will absolutely bring tears to your eyes.

The video, uploaded to youtube by CoorDown, shows a young man asking his girlfriend to move in with him. The video is not only beyond adorable, it’s educational as well.

“Just like Salvatore and Caterina, many couples dream of one day living together. Let’s help them realize this dream. Because, for people with Down syndrome, independence means a brighter future.”

Watch the video, and if you feel moved to do so, donate to CoorDown, a campaign for World Down Syndrome Day.

SEE MORE: 15 People With Down Syndrome Tell A Mom What Kind Of Life Her Child Will Have

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Last March, CoorDown created a video for World Down Syndrome Day that is beautiful, moving and inspiring. 

SEE MORE: Watch These Mothers’ Reactions When They Heard What Their Children Said About Them

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Nivea started a campaign called #momstouch, highlighting how much mothers do for their children. They asked kids to describe their mothers and then captured their responses on video.

Last March, CoorDown created a video for World Down Syndrome Day that is beautiful, moving and inspiring.  The organization received an email from a future mother who found out her baby will be born with Down Syndrome, and asked what kind of life her baby will have.

Every year, around 6,000 American children are born with Down syndrome. One out of every 691 babies are born with the condition (in which a person has an extra chromosome), making it one of the most common genetic conditions in the U.S. Approximately 400,000 Americans have Down syndrome. Via

The heartwarming video answers the mother’s worried question in the smartest and most honest way possible.

 

 

What do you want to be when you grow up? What’s your favorite food? These are questions every kid has answers to.

To celebrate World Down Syndrome Day, siblings Lauren and Paul Costabile produced the short video below, called “More Alike Than Different.” In it, they asked kids with Down syndrome, as well as typically developing kids, some simple questions and recorded their answers.

The Costabiles, who made the video in collaboration with a number of Down syndrome organizations, are also the producers and creators of “Bailey’s World,” a TV show in development featuring a main character with Down Syndrome.

The message of the video above is clear — we all deserve to be loved, included and accepted in our society.

This post was originally featured on The Mighty

As I was sliding down the hill, I had to question the wisdom of taking the trail my 12-year-old son, Tom, wanted to take.

I figured that because I was with my dad, it would be OK. But my dear 71-year-young father was way ahead of me and wasn’t looking back. I’d lost sight of him.

Tom was behind me, exclaiming that this was the best day of his life.

For a minute I panicked. We were 15 minutes from home in a state park I’ve known since the age of nine, but I feared we were hopelessly lost.

There are few things I hate more than being lost. I’ll do anything to avoid it. I have the worse sense of direction in all of human history. I can get lost getting out of a paper bag.

Tom had no idea anything was wrong. All he knew was that he was with his mom and grandfather having a great time. He trusted me completely. Poor kid.

Then it happened, I had a flashback to 34 years earlier.

I was 11, at a sleepaway camp deep in the woods of Upstate New York. I had just successfully spent my first night in my new sleeping bag. I woke up that morning before anyone else and needed the bathroom. Not wanting to bother my counselor, I declined her sleepy offer to walk me the short distance to the outhouse.

Getting to the outhouse was fine.

But the return trip?

I must have walked out a different door and turned in the wrong direction because two hours later, I still hadn’t found my way back to my cabin.

There I was in my little baby doll pajamas, going from cabin to cabin, hoping to find mine. Each time a counselor would give me directions to get back to my cabin. Not wanting to look any more foolish than I already did, I acted like I understood just fine. Off I would go, only to get more lost.

Finally I stumbled onto a cabin of boys, and that counselor brought me back to my group. I was lost for almost three hours.

Oddly enough I don’t remember ever crying or showing anyone just how terrified I was. Even at the age of 11, far from home, completely lost, I still wanted to look like I had it all together.

I was always terrified that people would think I was dumb.

Being dyslexic is never easy, but when I was growing up in the 70s and 80s, it was extremely difficult. At times I felt so lost in school. I often felt as if I was on a different planet where everyone spoke another language.

I was desperate to find someplace where I belonged. Somewhere it didn’t require so much effort to fit in.

Who knew that the place I was looking for was the one that I would end up creating with a guy I met on a blind date 24 years ago this month?

Joe understood and listened to me when I said I couldn’t do something. Then he told me I could do it anyway. For the first time, I believed it.

“I can’t type.” “I can’t go to college.” “I can’t drive.” “I can’t blog.” Each of my fears was countered by a “Yes you can.” And then I did.

Learning to find my way home that day and all the subsequent other times I was lost, both literally and figuratively, has allowed me to teach our three children that they, too, can go wherever they want to.

Even when it feels impossible. Even when there are people saying that they can’t.

I know how hard it is to feel completely lost, and I know the joy when you find your way and realize you can do what you once thought was impossible.

I snapped out of my flashback and finished down the hill, Tom following right behind me. We soon found the path and my waiting dad. None the worse for the wear.

Tom couldn’t wait to do it again.

Neither could I.

This post was originally featured on Kathy’s blog, My Dishwasher’s Possessed.

Yelling is the new spanking. While many parents have taken physical punishment out of their discipline toolbox, many have replaced it with yelling.

It’s not uncommon for a parent to resort to yelling when they are left with a empty toolbox and no idea how to disipline a child without the tactics that they were shown by their own parents. Discipline is not always easy, and so parents can come a little unhinged when they are faced with a discipline situation and don’t know what to do.

When I was a new mother of a curious 2.5 year old boy, I faced many discipline situations where I was apt to raise my voice in an attempt to force my son to do what I wanted him to do. Sometimes I yelled because I was simply emotionally reactive or tired of seemingly constantly correcting undesirable behaviors. (Although, that is part of the parenting job description!) As a family therapy student, I knew what the studies said about the impact of spanking and yelling on children. (source)

When I realized what I was doing and how ineffective and damaging it was, I set out to stop yelling at my children. It may seem like an impossible task, but you can do it, too!

Remember How It Felt

Empathy is crucial when it comes to changing your yelling ways. If you currently yell at your children, you probably had a model for this behavior in one or both of your parents and several other adults in your life (teachers, coaches, relatives, etc).

Remember how it felt when you were yelled at. If you were yelled at a lot, you may have wall up that prevents you from feeling much empathy toward your children. You may even think that they deserved to be yelled at (or worse), but you are wrong.

You didn’t deserve it and neither do your children. Put yourself in their shoes and think about how it feels to be smaller than the person who is speaking to you in a harsh way. If your children are bigger than you, think about how ridiculous you look when you yell at them.

Be Mindful

The first step to squashing your yelling habit is to be mindful. Watch yourself closely, but in a detached way. When your child misbehaves, notice how you feel. I bet you’ll find that your tendency to yell is a purely knee-jerk, emotional reaction.

If you want to stop yelling at your kids, you have to first know your triggers and understand when you are more likely to yell. Maybe a discipline situation causes you to yell one day but not on a different day. What triggers a harsh response sometimes but not others? Likely culprits are stress, illness, hunger, tiredness, hormonal issues or mental health struggles. Once you are mindful of your triggers you can work on your response to situations in which you usually yell.

Squelch Emotional Reactivity

There is a good chance that if you grew up in a household where physical punishment was acceptable, you were spanked when your parents had an emotional reaction to something you did.

What surprised me most about dealing with my children’s misbehavior in the preschool years was not how difficult they were (they were actually pretty normal — and barring any medical or mental conditions, so are your children.) but instead how emotionally reactive I was to their misbehavior. While my first impulse was never to use physical punishment, I would often to raise my voice to show just how serious I was.

If you take the emotion out of the situation and focus on solutions, the yelling is automatically extinguished. For example, if your child breaks a window, instead of becoming emotional while you think about the expense and repair time that it will take to fix it, focus on the fact that there is a solution to the problem. Calmly explain your child’s responsibility in the solution — whether he or she will not receive an allowance until the window is paid for or if she or he will not be allowed to play ball in that area of the yard or whatever other logical consequence you may choose.

Your job as a parent is to discipline (read: teach) your child and not to heap on punishment to make them feel pain. Keeping your emotional reactivity to a minimum requires you to be emotionally mature, but will set a wonderful example for your children of how to handle difficult situations without dissolving to irrational behaviors and words.

Tell Your Children How You Feel

Until you are able to master the last tip, try telling your children how you feel when they misbehave. You are responsible for your own feelings, so you have to word them in a way that doesn’t put blame on your child but instead shows them how their actions can affect others.

For example, if your children fight with one another and won’t stop when asked nicely, let them know that when they fight you feel frustrated or annoyed. Do not say, “You make me frustrated when you fight!” Instead say, “I feel frustrated when you fight!” Take responsibility for your emotions, but explain to them how you feel.

Walk Away

Did you know that when your child is engaging in non-dangerous misbehavior you don’t have to deal with it immediately. Let’s say your child is refusing to clean his room. If you are angered to the point of yelling at him, it’s okay to walk away. Let him know that you are angry and need a minute to cool off before continuing the discussion.

In this particular scenario, I have come back to find my son’s room cleaned. The seriousness in my voice–even at a low, quiet tone–was enough to let him know I meant business. Other times I have been able to come back to the situation and explain why the task must be done or the behavior must be stopped and because I was non-emotional about it, my child was not defensive and was able to fully cooperate.

Let Your Children Help You

I told my children when they were very young that it is not okay for mommy to yell at them. I asked them to tell me to stop if I yelled at them. This teaches them that parents can make mistakes and that, mostly importantly, that they do not have to accept people behaving in a rude or abusive manner toward them.

Now, it wasn’t often that my children would actually tell me to stop — a yelling parent is an intimidating parent–but every once in a while they’d meekly remind me that I wasn’t suppose to yell. Even now my oldest will ask me to calm down and will offer a hug if I’m teetering on the verge of raising my voice toward one of his brothers. I appreciate his bold protectiveness of his brothers and his way of showing us all that a kind word can turn away wrath.

Let Your Partner Help You

Ask your partner to stop you if you yell at your children. This doesn’t mean that he or she has to go against what you’re trying to tell your children, but instead he or she is helping to relieve a tense situation by being a calming factor. If your partner can better explain to your child what needs to be done (or not done) in a calm manner, then your child will get more from your partner in that moment than he or she will from you.

Find Other Discipline Tools

If you’ve taken physical punishment out of your discipline toolbox and plan to removing yelling, as well, it is crucial that you have other methods of getting through to your children. Here are a few of the things I’ve used over the years to replace harsh parenting practices.

Use a Whistle

When my boys were little I found that I was too often yelling over them when they squabbled. I looked crazy and they learned nothing, because raising my voice made me feel as crazy as I looked. I bought a whistle and used it to get their attention instead.

Raise Your Hand

When I can’t get a word in edgewise with a whiny, complaining or argumentative child, I simply raise my hand and don’t speak until they are finished. Then I ask that they do the same while I say what I need to say. The conversation stays civil instead of ramping up in intensity.

Get Quiet

This is similar to raising your hand, only here you aren’t waiting to speak. You are done speaking. This is useful when your child is talking back or continue to beg you for something you’ve already said no to. When they realize you aren’t going to continue to negotiate or argue with them, they will likely stomp away or hurl a lovely, “I hate you!” your way. Let it go, mama! Let it go.

Get Silly

While playful parenting is not my default style, it is very useful at diffusing intense situations. If you feel like yelling, “You guys are driving me crazy!” change your accent and give them a your dramatic British version of the same sentence.

Also, singing your requests can help. When it’s time to clean up or get ready to go, turn it into a silly song that prompts your children to move faster just to get you to stop. One caveat on this one, though — if your child has become truly annoyed with your silliness, don’t keep heaping it on. This only teaches them to be the bully who says to others, “What? I was only kidding! You’re too sensitive!”. Nobody likes that person.

Write it Down

When your kids won’t listen, start writing! Request that their complaints, demands and rebuttals all be submitted in writing.

Take It One Hour At A Time

Remember when you first begin trying to stop yelling at your children, you will fail. You will probably fail daily. That’s why it’s important to take it one hour at a time. Congratulate yourself for every hour you get through without yelling at your children. Take the beginning of each new hour as a fresh start.

This post was originally featured on Allison’s blog, Our Small Hours