Turn on the tv, open a magazine, and you’re gonna see a woman who’s had work done. And there’s no shame in that game, if Botox or a little lift are what make you feel good we say go wild. But for those of us who just aren’t surgery people, there are plenty of simple skin fixes to look younger and healthier.

We checked in with Dr. Christopher Calapai, D.O., a NYC Osteopathic Physician Board Certified in family medicine and anti-aging medicine, for his suggestions on how to keep your face looking youthful without calling a plastic surgeon. He recommends that you:

 

1) Stop smoking.

“Cigarettes contain some 40,000 toxins, each deposited directly into the DNA of skin cells each time you take a drag,” says Dr. Calapai. “Numerous studies in identical twins have found that smokers look ten years older than non-smokers. That evidence is profound in lines around the eyes.” Talk to your doctor about methods to help you quit.

 

2) Flex your face.

“Facial muscles are just like body muscles,” says Dr. Calapai. “The more you use them, the stronger they get and the less likely they are to sag and atrophy.” Try this quick cheek workout to help build up sagging facial muscles: look in a mirror, smile as broadly as possible while keeping your lips closed and mouth corners turned up. Try to make your mouth corners touch your ears. Next, wrinkle your nose and see your cheek muscles move upwards. Stay like this for a count of five, then relax. Repeat 10 times.

 

3) Consider acupuncture.

Half of Hollywood is allegedly hooked on the face-saving, radiance-boosting power of cosmetic acupuncture. According to experts, it stimulates skin cells to lay down new collagen fibers under wrinkles, ‘filling them in’ literally while also toning different muscles to restore glow. The added bonus is that most cosmetic acupuncturists treat underlying problems that could be causing your skin to look older, such as insomnia and bad digestion.

 

4) Have more sex.

Having sex at least 3 times per week can make you look up to 10 years younger. According to Dr. Dr. Calapai, having more sex is the next best thing you can do after exercise to look younger because it also helps you to naturally release more growth hormones and it’s been proven that having more sex can help you live longer.

 

5) Avoid sugar.

“Too much sugar in your diet will lead to an age accelerating process in your body known as glycation and glycation does damage to the collagen in your skin making you lose skin elasticity causing wrinkles to appear,” affirms Dr. Calapai. Something as simple as cutting out sodas and sweet juices makes a difference fast.

 

6) Exfoliate your skin regularly. 

“Exfoliation increases dermal volume, making skin look less wrinkly. It will also help fade brown spots. You can use a physical exfoliant like a scrub, or a chemical exfoliant, such as a glycolic,” says Dr. Calapai.

 

7) Start intermittent fasting.

The 2 main reasons why intermittent fasting makes you look younger is because intermittent fasting naturally increases your human growth hormone which amps up the production of collagen for younger looking skin. Dr. Calapai explains that, “intermittent fasting induces autophagy where the cells in your body repair themselves to make a newer much healthier cell to prevent aging.”

 

8) Exercise.

You may think you carry your age in your face, but people “guess” your age by how you move. The youthful figure is thin, muscular, flexible, and strong. Your exercise program should include lots of cardio (this allows you to move around without huffing and puffing (a definite “geezer” give-away). Also be sure to strength train with free weights, and add in some stretching to preserve flexibility.

 

9) Improve your posture.

One of the biggest giveaways for looking old is a curved back with slumpy sitting, and shoulders that ride up too high with respect to your neck. Dr. Calapai recommends fixing your posture by thinking of the top of your head as a flat surface and then try to get that flat surface as tall as you can. Consciously push down your shoulders. Do this as you walk and sit. Take a “posture check” as often as you think about it during the day. Young people may not have perfect posture, but correcting your posture will make you look more youthful.

 

10) Eat more oily fish.

Eating fish rich in Omega 3 is optimal but if you don’t like fish take a high-grade fish-oil supplement. Dr. Calapai says that, “none of us consume enough essential fatty acids, which as well as helping our brains to function more smoothly are considered vital to keep skin-cell-membranes in good health and therefore stop the skin from getting too dry.”

 

Ready to get started? Eat a salmon salad, go for a walk, make some funny faces, and then text your hubby to let them know that tonight’s gonna be a good night.

 

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We recently bought a new minivan (my dream car actually, but I won’t brag) for our family vehicle.

Car shopping changes when you have kids. You need to think about things such as how car seats fit in a vehicle, space for strollers, and what kind of storage a vehicle has. It can get pretty complicated. Luckily, my husband and I had a list of what was important to us so that our new vehicle was able to accommodate our needs. We narrowed down our list to the specific vehicles we wanted beforehand, making things so much easier.

Here are a few tips that really helped us out in choosing our new minivan:

1. Do your car research BEFORE going to dealerships.

We knew we wanted a minivan and did a lot of online comparisons. We knew what kind of features we wanted our new vehicle to have and our price range ahead of time. We even knew what make and model of minivan we wanted before we got to the dealership. Literally, all we had to do was take it for a test drive, fill out our financial application, and drive away in our new vehicle. It was really easy because we were prepared and we had an awesome salesman!

2. Have everything ready to go when signing the paperwork.

After we test drove and came to the conclusion that we wanted to buy that van. We did everything online and by email. It made everything super easy and when we went in to pick up the minivan, all we needed to do was sign paperwork and we were off. We were lucky that we didn’t have the kids with us at the time, but if we did, since everything was done ahead of time, it would have been painless to bring them.

3. Think about whether you plan on expanding your family and how much room you’ll /want need for bags, car seats, strollers, etc.

Will you need to fit more than one stroller in the vehicle? A double stroller? Will you be using the vehicle for any road trips or other travel?

4. Try out car seats and booster seats in the vehicle you wish to purchase.

No joke. Bring them to the dealership with you when you test drive. Some sales people actually have car seats at the dealership for you to try out in vehicles as well. I can’t stress it enough about seeing how the car seats fit in a vehicle you are considering buying, leg room, etc. We’ve met a lot of couples who purchase a vehicle right before having kids, only to find their new car isn’t “kid-friendly” at all.

5. Get a cover for car seats on leather seats.

So, I actually hated leather seats and worried the kids would tear through the leather easily. Of course, our new minivan is fully equipped with all leather seats (and I’ll admit, it’s not as terrible as I once thought). We weren’t prepared for needing seat covers when we picked up the van, so we improvised with using towels. If you don’t have seat covers, I highly recommend using a towels or some kind of cover as car seats/booster seats can dig into the leather and completely destroy the material.

6. Work with a sales person who values your time.

Not only were we crazy busy when we bought our latest vehicle, but we had to work around nap times. Our sales person handled everything by email and had all paperwork ready to sign for us when we arrived. We were out the door driving away in our new minivan in less than 45 minutes.

7. Think about what features you want in your new vehicle.

We had special features we wanted our vehicle to have. DVD players were a huge plus for us, but not completely necessary since we already had a portable DVD player set. We also wanted “stow-and-go” seating. Luckily for us, we got a fully loaded vehicle and all of our wishes came true. Honestly, think about what you can and can’t live without especially if you spend a lot of your time in your car driving to and from work, daycare, school, appointments, road trips, etc. Since we’ll be using this vehicle for our upcoming road trips, we thought a lot about our past road trips and what we found ourselves wishing we had.

8. Figure out the main use for your new vehicle.

Is it driving to and from work? Long road trips? As a second vehicle? As a family ride? We needed a second vehicle to become our new family car and something we could take on our upcoming road trip adventures. Also, we needed a vehicle that will be sitting in our driveway during the days that I work from home. Because of this, we decided to purchase a used minivan that is few years old. This way, I didn’t feel quite as guilty for letting it sit and deemed it as something that will last us for our future family road trips.

Please share any tips or information you have for buying a new vehicle for your family!
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Mother’s Day is less than a week away! 

To avoid last minute breakdowns and stress, we’ve put together this kick ass list of awesome gift ideas for moms. Use this to shop for your own mother or mother-in-law, or forward this baby onto those looking to shop for you. Life’s too short to stress about gifts. Sit back, grab a glass of wine, and click away.

1. Cord Tacos

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These awesome cords holders are limited edition “mom themed” and they are super badass. Not only will these keep you organized, but they’re perfect for pop culture lovers everywhere. The moms featured in these “cord tacos” are our fictional heroes: Sophia, Morticia, Joy Luck Club, Carol, Ripley, and Marge.

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2. Book of the Month Membership

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If you’re a book lover, or you know a mom who is a book lover, this membership sends you a new book to read every month! Umm, anything to save someone a trip to the bookstore with a bunch of loud kids in tow.

3. Fire Tablet

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Long gone is the luxury of toting around paperback novels in your purse, or having clean and decorated bookshelves. A tablet has everything all in one, and is the ideal convenience for a mom. You can have books, music, television shows and movies in one place. Plus, this doubles as entertainment for your kid so you can shut them up on long drives.

4. Cozy Chic Robe

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Every mother deserves a cozy, chic robe. This is definitely one of the best gifts for moms (including yourself). We hear fluffy robes pair well with a glass of Merlot.

5. Slow Cooker

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Slow cookers=a mom’s saving grace. The last thing a mom wants to stress about is taking an hour out of their evening to cook dinner, and this bad boy makes it easy. Throw ingredients in it in the morning, let it cook all day, and enjoy the meal at night.

6. DeLonghi Nescafe Dolce Gusto Genio Coffeemaker

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Totally the perfect gift for the mother who basically needs coffee to survive. This fancy pants coffee maker can make both hot and cold beverages, so it’s perfect for every caffeine craving a mom might have.

7. Stainless Steel Thermos

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Once you make all of that delicious coffee, you’re going to need something to haul it around that won’t spill all over the car or onto your rambunctious kids. Buy this thermos for a mom who’s on the go, or send the link to your family with a “wink” emoji at the end. Hopefully they’ll get the idea.

8. Mother’s Day Bliss Box

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Who doesn’t love getting a box full of wonderful treats to help you relax and feel rejuvenated? Buy a mom in your life a monthly subscription to Bliss Box, or treat yoself! You deserve it. You’re a damn mom which is basically the equivalent of being Xena: Warrior Princess.

9. Comfy Slippers

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Slippers are a must in general, but definitely for moms. Mothers are always running around on their feet, so it’s important to take care of them.

10. Chatbooks

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Chatbooks are awesome, because they take your Instagram photos and print them into books full of memories and captured moments. This would be the best surprise gift ever for a mom! Plus, you can easily access their IG feed and print the photos of your choice!

Of course, the ultimate Mother’s Day gift is a night off from the kids. Seriously…no mother will ever complain about that.

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The best part about having a friend that you have known all your life, or is as close to you as a sister would be (if you had a sister), is that she can tell you anything – no holds barred. Such is the friendship I have with my bestie. Not only do we tell each other when one has something in her teeth, but we will pick it out for the other. We are not beyond being brutally honest if it’s in the best interest of the other’s well-being – be it appearance, health, or otherwise. So when my new sweater, after only a few wearings was covered in a pilled mess, she was the first (and only) person to let me know that I need to fix it, and fix it fast.

I’m not the kind of person who needs a gadget for every need, but my bestie has a tool for every need. She probably has the best kitchen gadgets for someone who spends so little time in the kitchen (I just love her mini scoops for candy dishes). When she was getting married, she registered for a waffle iron (how often does a non-cook/cereal addict actually use a waffle iron?).

It’s not that I don’t like the newest gadget, it’s that I don’t want to wait long enough to fix the problem to get the right tool, and I like the challenge of using what I have to fix an issue. If I don’t have screwdriver handy, I use a coin (did you know you can do that with screws that require a flat head screwdriver?) and if I don’t have the “pilled sweater removal tool” that she has, I accept the challenge to come up with something else to do the job.

Her “pilled sweater removal tool” looks like the electric razor my grandfather used to use, and I just didn’t have something like that around. So I pulled my Gillette Venus razor from Costco out of the shower and tried it out. Just before shaving my sweater, I considered for a moment that it could damage this cashmere beauty, but I put the thought out of my head and in my kamikaze way, I got to work as a pill remover.

I took the razor, along with a sticky lint roller to a flat surface and laid out the sweater. I shaved the sweater in one direction; from shoulder to waist in a downward stroke. I followed the direction of the weave of the sweater, so to continue that on the arms (everything was pilled!), I shaved from armpit to wrist. I wouldn’t suggest going against the weave for fear of catching a stitch and pulling the sweater fibers out of place.

As the pills came free, some stuck to the razor while the rest balled up on the sweater. The best way to collect them was to use the lint roller to pick them up. The roller itself won’t remove the pills, but it will removed the pills that have been shaved from the sweater and left behind by the razor. You could sit and pile up the pills, but I found it faster using sheet after sheet of my little lint roller to help the process along.

In the end though, it was worth the ten minutes; my sweater looks as good as new.

Once the sweater was completely de-pilled, I removed the blade from my razor and stored it away for the next de-pilling session. Consider it a razor blade upcycle!

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I am so grateful to have my bestie in my life – now I won’t be walking around for the rest of the winter in a new sweater that looks old. And how did I repay the favor? I promised her that I would pluck her chin hairs for her when we are old and in the nursing home together; it was the least that I could do!

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It’s finally arrived – the vacation you’ve been dreaming about for years.

Despite the chaos of everyday life and motherhood, you’ve made this vacation happen. And then a horrifying thought hits you squarely between the eyes: you’re going to have to travel with your kids.

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Before you stress out and cancel the whole thing, we’re here to help you. Here are 10 products to make your life easier when you’re traveling with kids.

1. Little Kid Luggage

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Instead of trying to cram all of your kid’s clothes and belongings into your already stuffed suitcase, invest in one of their own. This will keep you organized. If they’re big enough, they can easily tote it around themselves. It’ll probably make them feel cool and older than they are, which saves you a stress-induced panic attack in the airport. It’s a win-win for everyone!

2. Travel Crib

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This is going to be a lifesaver. Who has time to deal with a cranky kid? NOT US. A travel crib is perfect for those long pit-stops and delayed flights.

3. Crayola Travel Tote

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A bored child is a nightmare child. Keep your kid busy and out of your hair with a traveling color pack, like this one from Crayola. They’ll be so absorbed in making what they consider “art” that they won’t have time to be annoying!

4. The Brilliant Ride-On Carry-On

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A stroller and a suitcase all in one? WE THINK YES. Whoever invented this clearly understood being a parent. When you’re rushing to make your flight, you don’t want to have to push around a stroller on top of all the luggage. This kills two birds with one stone and makes us mama’s very happy.

5. Pack n’ Go Mini Mobile

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This mini mobile is perfect for anyone traveling with a baby – it’ll keep them entertained the way the Crayola traveling kit keeps the older kids occupied.

6. Portable Diaper Changing Station

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You know what’s not a great feeling? When you’re traveling and dealing with a poopy diaper, and the bathroom at the airport or pit-stop is going so slow you feel like gouging your eyes out. Having a portable diaper station is critical! You need to be able to take care of your baby wherever you are.

7. Inflatable Bath Tub

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As if kids aren’t picky enough when it comes to food, they also decide to throw tantrums in hotel bathrooms. With an adorable, inflatable bathtub you can avoid meltdowns on trips that leave you asking yourself the questions, “Is Disney World worth this???”

8. Travel High Chair

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Since it would be absolutely ridiculous to bring a giant high chair with you on a trip, this harness doubles as a portable high chair and safety strap. Now any chair can become a high chair and you can salvage some remnants of your sanity whilst traveling with kids.

9. Motion Sickness For Kids

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The last thing anyone needs on a trip is a puking child. If your kid is prone to motion sickness on planes or in cars, this is definitely necessary. It even comes in a convenient travel case because the motion sickness medicine gods understand the plight of a parent.

10. Kid Neck Pillow

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If your kid is uncomfortable when traveling, then everything is going to go to shit. Hand them a neck pillow that looks like a dog and you’ve basically given them a pot of gold. They’ll have no choice but to fall soundly asleep, and then you’re free to argue directions with your spouse (because let’s be honest, they always refuse to use GPS even though THEY DESPERATELY NEED IT).

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Our lives are stressful enough without feeling overwhelmed when it comes to packing our kid’s lunch. 

We call it a win if our kid can eat anything that doesn’t contain a million grams of sugar, so when it comes to lunch we want no fuss and no stress. That’s why we love bento lunch boxes – they’re practically made for picky eaters. They allow you to cut sandwiches, veggies, and snacks into fun shapes and make it fun for your kid to eat. They’ll be so distracted by the fact that their PB&J is cut into a funky design that they won’t even notice you’ve snuck broccoli into the snack section! HOORAY!

Here are 7 of our favorite bento lunch boxes for your kids.

1. Bentgo Kids Leakproof Children’s Lunch Box 

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This bento lunch box is leakproof, which is a win in our book. There’s nothing worse than our kid’s lunch ruining their carefully completed homework, or soaking through their backpack.

2. Fit & Fresh Bento Lunch Box Kit with Reusable Ice Packs

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This bento box has convenient sections for ice packs to keep lunches fresh and the opposite of soggy. Soggy lunch? No thanks.

3. Star Wars R2-D2 Bento Box

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Okay, this bento lunch box is so badass. If your kid is a Star Wars fan, they’re going to absolutely freak. An entire R2-D2 lunch box? INTO IT.

4. YUMBOX Bento Lunch Box 

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The YUMBOX designs are pretty adorable, easy to clean, and leakproof as well.

5. CoolBites Premium Bento Lunch Box

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Another great option that keeps your lunch well-insulated. There’s nothing worse than opening up a soggy tuna sandwich. The thought haunts us!

6. Iwotu Microwave & Dishwasher Safe Lunch Box

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Simple and lightweight, this bento box has five compartments that includes an area for soup/yogurt.

7. Stackable Bento Box

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The stackable feature is pretty awesome – more room for more food! You can rest easy knowing your kid is going to be well fed.

At the end of the day, all of these bento lunch boxes just make your life easier. Which is great – a mom’s life can always use a little less stress. Now go celebrate your amazing lunch-packing skills with a glass of well deserved wine!

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